Anticipated Serendipity

Sleeepppyyyy… zzzzzzz…

March16

gawd, am sooooo sleepy rite now… i think the pasta did it. Went to Marmalade for lunch with a couple of friends and had the spaghetti funghi. Was so stuffed from it, and now I’m paying for it… zzzzzzzzz… oooofff…

well, good news is that i dun have to handle that new project with the bitchy client… YAAYY!!! :D Thank gawd! They hired someone in that team so they’re gonna handle it themselves, hah! Another news (not good nor bad) is that tmrw we have a kick-off meeting for a new project. Soooooo… an excuse to cancel my leave tmrw!!! Ahaha! At least the HR person won’t chew my head off when I tell her I need to change my leave plans coz my boss arranged for a meeting tmrw which I MUST not miss… haha!

i have a very bad habit these days of setting my alarm clock for 6:30am and hitting the Snooze button several times (my Snooze setting is every 10 mins) till I drag myself outta bed at 7:15-7:20. uuummpphh… MUST… NOT… HIT… SNOOZE… BUTTON… MORE… THAN… 2x IN ONE MORNING!!!

Since last weekend, I’ve had this pimple/bite thingy in my left ear. Dunno how or where it came from but one day, it just felt itchy so I put my finger there to scratch it and I found a HUGE bump! Like, a really swollen, bengkak bump! In a really angry RED color. And it hurt when I touched, which was why I thought it was a pimple at first coz if it were a bite, I didn’t think it’d hurt. But CL took a look and said it was a bite so ok lor… I couldn’t affirm/disagree coz heck, it’s not like I could investigate it myself. So put some antiseptic lotion on it… here’s how it looks like.
Warning: It’s quite gross so view at ur own risk. The white stuff is Savlon, NOT pus :p

Owww… :o ( It’s been almost a WEEK!

Animals are living beings too, ok?!

March16

It absolutely riles me when I see parents brainwash their kids into thinking that animals are bad/dirty/useless/dangerous/etc. just coz they have an aversion towards animals or just coz they think animals are not worth anything just coz, well, they’re animals and not humans.

Mom to kid : Eeeeeee!! Dun go near that dog! Afterwards it bites u, then u know!
Mom to kid : Don’t u dare touch that cat! It’s dirty, u’ll catch a disease!

It’s quite depressing (and alarming) when parents instil that FEAR of animals in their kids. How are u gonna teach ur kid compassion when u won’t even let the kid be kind to animals??? Animals are living beings too, and they have just as much right to this planet as we humans do. What right does anyone have to think that animals are not worthy of any space on Earth just coz they dun have the mental capacity that we do??? Heck, u know wat, sometimes (ok, a lot of times), I’d rather deal with animals than with humans coz at least, I know that my cats won’t manipulate me or make me feel bad. All they want is a head scratch or belly rub or food. Plain and simple.

Anyway, back to parents + kids + animals. How do u justify that it’s ok to be kind to ur fellow humans but not to spare a thought for that helpless kitten with a broken leg, hobbling outside ur door? Is there a difference? Both are living, breathing beings, are they not? Both have the capability to feel pain, do they not? I will never, in my life, understand what’s the difference between being kind to my species and not to others. If u really wanna get down to it, I think that some of the things that humans do are so vile that even animals would loathe us for it, if they knew.

I find it quite scary to thing that right at this moment, out there, there’re tons of parents like this, moulding lil’ juniors of themselves to loathe and fear animals. I shudder to think of how we’re gonna coexist with the animal species when some of us can’t even stand the thought of having an animal near us.

For me, one of the ways to size up a person is to see how s/he reacts to animals (note that I say it’s ONE of the ways, and not the ONLY way). It’s not entirely fool-proof but it does give me a different aspect of a person. A person can be oh-so-nice to me or to other ppl, but put them in the same room with a cat or a dog and sometimes, u’ll see a totally different person altogether. And I’m not talking abt those who have zoophobia. I’m not saying that ppl who dun like animals are bad and oh, I dun expect every single person to be like me and mush and gush over every single animal! I can accept the fact that some ppl just dun like animals, just like how I just dun like some ppl (i.e. humans). BUT even if one doesn’t like animals, they can still respect them and not wish/do anything to harm them.

I’m very thankful for the fact that my parents respect and love animals, and taught me to do the same. I’ve grown up around animals (dogs, mostly) all my life and I’ve come to learn to love not only dogs, but all the animal species (well, I haven’t had any experience with reptiles and a lot of other animals but I think I can handle them. Just teach me how! :p) I get a warm fuzzy feeling when I see my family interact with my cats, when my parents talk to them and treat them like part of the family. And each time, I thank God that my parents didn’t raise me up to fear animals.

And I know for a fact that, if ever I have any kids of my own, I’m definitely gonna teach them the same respect and love for animals as I’ve been taught. No kid of mine is ever gonna fear animals or be cruel to them.

To quote several well-known figures on the subject:

Very little of the great cruelty shown by men can really be attributed to cruel instinct. Most of it comes from thoughtlessness or inherited habit. The roots of cruelty, therefore, are not so much strong as widespread…
~ Dr. Albert Schweitzer, Alsatian Theologian, Musician, and Medical Missionary


Love of animals is a universal impulse, a common ground on which all of us may meet. By loving and understanding animals, perhaps we humans shall come to understand each other.
~ Louis J. Camuti, D.V.M., first American vet to devote his practice exclusively to cats (also a very humorous author of short stories of his time in practice)


Heaven is by favor; if it were by merit your dog would go in and you would stay out. Of all the creatures ever made [man] is the most detestable. Of the entire brood, he is the only one… that possesses malice. He is the only creature that inflicts pain for sport, knowing it to be pain.
~ Mark Twain

This weekend != BKK

March16

sigh… was supposed to head to BKK this weekend. Due to unforeseen circumstances, I’ve backed out of the trip. Am contemplating whether I should cancel my leave and use it later… but then again, maybe not. Think maybe I’ll cancel my leave tmrw… and use it at the end of the mth, for S’pore Sling, as CL says… haha…

So how do u feel now huh???

March15

I hate it when ppl make me feel like crap when I did nothing wrong.

Bored again…

March15

am so mind-blowingly bored today… not that i dun have any work to do… but am in one of those moods where i just dun feel like doing anything.

feel like skivving off work and loitering at Kino…

sigh… fat chance i’d ever do something like that… bah!

on a brighter note, am off work Friday till next Tuesday… let’s hope I can get some progress re. the work situation during those few days… hhmmm…

Bloody hell!!

March14

Bloody bloody hell!!!!

First, was made to wait bloody 1 HOUR + 15 MINS for an 11am appointment. All these ad agencies are ALL the bloody same!!! No respect for other ppl’s time at all watsoever!! GAH!!! So infuriating!! I’m fine waiting for 10-15 mins, even 30 mins. But 1 HOUR 15 MINS??!!! WTF! ARGH!

Then, every bloody road in KL was bloody freaking jammed!!! Every corner/shortcut I went into, traffic was backed up like it was the bloody mega sale in every bloody shopping mall in KL!! ARGH! I was getting pissier by the min… and there was nothing I could do but sit in the car and fume. BAH!

And that bloody client is having problems with the system again! ARGH! Will it never end??!!!

I sooooo want outta here…

Not a good day at all… :o (

Difficult PM??

March13

Haha… I think I have a reputation here to be a difficult PM i.e.

  • I won’t take up any project that’s outside my scope without prior instruction from my boss (i.e. if some other mgr says I’m gonna be in charge of Project A, which I’ve no clue of whatsoever and which was previously managed by another team)
  • If the Sales Mgr gets a potential client whose requirement requires customization/integration, I refuse to deal with the client until we’re sure that the deal will go thru (i.e. all loose ends taken care of in terms of any 3rd party confirmation, A&P, roles and responsibilities, etc.). Then I’ll handle the project from there onwards. I mean, it’s not like I won’t do ANYTHING to try to get the deal. I’m fine with doing the proposals and service rollout plans but I just won’t talk to the client unless they sign the deal and we’re to proceed to development coz the person who got the deal is not me.

I guess they’d think I’m calculative and petty but I know my job scope and I do what I’m supposed to do. If I feel that it’s worth it, I’ll go the extra mile but right now, I couldn’t be bothered. I think this is due to my I-dun-care-anymore-wat-I-do-here-and-I-wanna-get-out-of-here-now attitude. Soooo malas/fed up to deal with the things here already… bleeccckkk…

My mouse broke his leg….

March9

Just got the strangest phone call.

Her : Hallo, may I speak to Ai Ling?
Me : Yes, speaking.
Her : This is [somenamethaticouldntfigureout]. U’re with SPCA rite? My mouse broke his leg. What should I do ah?
Me : *thinking* HUH?!
Me : *talking* Oh… umm… u should take him to the vet. Do u have a vet that u normally go to?
Her : No… my mouse is healthy, I dun take him to the vet.
Me : *thinking* U dun have a vet?! U still need to take ur mouse for shots and checkups!
Me : *talking* Umm… well, u should take him to the vet coz if u break ur leg, u would go to a doctor, rite? U call the SPCA also they cannot do anything. They’ll direct u to the vet. Which area are u staying at?
Her : Loke Yew. Actually, the other day, I called up a medical center and they told me that it will be costly to put in a pin to join the bones back together.
Me : *thinking* DUH! U think ur doctor will join ur bones back together for free ah?!
Me : *talking* ok… never mind. When did ur mouse break his leg?
Her : Actually, I’m not really sure. But I found out 2 days ago when I was showering him.
Me : *thinking* U found out ur mouse broke his leg TWO DAYS AGO and u still haven’t taken him to the vet?! Wat the…???!!!!
Me : *talking* Oh… like that ah… Do u know Taman Segar? There’s a vet there, Segar Animal Clinic. Do u know where it is?
Her : No
Me : Oh… like that ah… let me look for the number and call u back.
Her : Oh, thank u.
Me : By the way, where did u get my number from?
Her : From the website lor.
Me : Oh, the SPCA newsletter, is it?
Her : Yah
Me : Ok… let me look for the number and I SMS it to u.

ok… I dunno why she decided to call ME on my handphone rather than the MAIN SPCA no. but the reason my no.’s on the SPCA’s site is coz I’m involved in their Spay/Neuter Campaign for Cats, where the SPCA subsidizes a certain amount (or entire amount) for the surgery to encourage the lower income population to spay/neuter their cats to reduce the strays. We (there’s 3 of us) are to filter the callers to make sure they’re eligible for the subsidy and not just some rich, free-loader who can buy big, fancy cars but can’t pay 100 bucks to fix their cat(s).

See, I just checked their site… and my no.’s waaaaaayyy down below the page under the Spay and Neuter Immediately Please (SNIPS) campaign. At which part did she see “Call this no. for any pet injuries?!”???!!! Maybe she just saw “free of charge” and decided to try her luck. BAH! How come ppl can spend tons of other stuff (cars, clothes, electronic equipement… all inanimate, non-living objects) but REFUSE to spend a bit on their living, loving pets???!!!! GAAAAHH!!! Drives me NUTS!!!

SMS-ed her the vet’s no. I hope her mouse heals… poor mousey… suffering due to his owner’s ignorance… sigh…

Catster!!

March9

Ahahahaha!!! My kats have their own version of Friendster, and it’s called Catster!!

Here are their very own personal pages:

Patchy
Nessa
Misty

For doggies, u can go to Dogster! Have fun!!! :D

Maggi Goreng

March9

@ Sri Nirwana Maju (Bangsar) : RM3.30
@ Restoran Rufi (Damansara Heights) : RM2.50

:-o

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