Sloooowww Day
It’s Friday! Yay!
But I’m feeling so darn lazy today. Sleepy too. I just discovered that I can never ever take cold/cough meds during the daytime, even though the doc says they’re the non-drowsy kind, coz it totally zombifies me. Even the non-drowsy ones, I have no idea why. Serious. I feel like I’m in a dream. My boss asked me “Eh, you’re very drowsy ar?” It was embarrassing coz I think I was dozing off when we were in a discussion. Shites! 
So anyway, the topic on “He Says, She Says…” today was, “If you really love your man, you would never allow him to do any work around the house. Agree or disagree?”
Ika gave an example of her friend, who’s a working professional and all that, who goes by that sentence above to keep her marriage happy i.e. she makes sure she’s home before the hubby to get the food ready and is ever ready at his beck and call. And apparently, if the hubby is at home and his glass of drink is empty, all he needs to do is shake his glass and she’s by his side to refill his drink. And in return, she gets around-the-world trips and expensive gifts.
WHAT THE…???!!!
Gawd, the fella got no arms and legs to fix his own drink is it? The wife is his maid, is it? But then again, she willingly submits to that sort of behavior and even promotes it. So her pasal la.
But seriously, if my guy were to expect me to wait on him hand and foot, sorry la. I’m not about to be subjected to be a maid to anyone. And presents and trips can’t buy me over to that way of thinking. We’re both working professionals and we’ve all got our everyday stresses so the least we could do is share the housechores. I will get you a drink or fix you a meal but that’s coz I want to, and don’t expect it ALL the time coz I’d like the same treatment in return as well.
Spoil the men, suffer the rest of your lives (at least, that was one of the callers’ experience).
What say you?
Always a pessimistic idealist… the perfectionist… animal lover… dance enthusiast… and snob to people who don’t know me. Coz I’ve got the “proud peacock look”, according to a friend. Ah well… always takes one to know one, no? 
well how about some few carats ice or apartments under ur name? good luck cheekychinlai!
I’m not into diamonds or expensive jewelry. And if I wanted an apt/house, I’d buy it myself. I like being independent, thank you very much. No matter how hard I have to work. Though I complain about it all the time. Haha.