Warm & Fuzzy Feeling… and exhaustion
Two weddings down, two more hen’s nights and two more weddings to go…
SamT’s hubby was so cute at their tea ceremony. After the customary bully-the-groom activities and while he was waiting to enter the bridal room, he was visibly nervous (his hands were shaking and he was taking deep breaths!) and he was telling us (the chi muis i.e. bride’s posse) that he’s been waiting almost TEN years for this day!! And he even quoted the date of either the time they got together or the date he first proposed — which was about 2 or more years ago and she told him to wait first at that time, hehe.
Cynical as I am about things like ‘true love’ and ‘happily ever after’, it still gives me the warm, fuzzy feeling when I see couples who are so obviously in love with each other, especially the guy who visibly shows it.
Is it as elusive as I think it is?
A friend believes in the idea of true love and soulmates, which is kind of interesting coming from a guy.
Another friend says there’s no such thing as a ‘perfect’ relationship/marriage so don’t go deluding oneself. This coming from a woman.
So what do I believe in? Need to do some soul-searching.