The gist of it…
ok… I haven’t finished reading the book yet… but the gist of it is… if a guy is really into you, he will have no problems displaying the following behaviors :
- He will call when he says he’ll call… and he will call regardless how busy he is.
- He will do the work in pursuing you because, for the most part, men like the challenge of not knowing whether they can catch you and feel rewarded when they do.
- He will show, as soon as reasonably possible, that he means business (in the marriage dept).
Mind you, these things came from the male perspective so there must be some truth in them.
I like the polls that they have at the end of each chapter too.
Basically, in my opinion (of what I’ve read so far), the content of the book is to help women be aware of the common behaviors that men show in various situations and the excuses that women give to justify these actions. And it tells women to STOP doing that!
Why? Because we are worth more than that and we deserve to land that guy who worships the ground we walk on (my own words, haha!) 
ok la… not so dramatic but it tells us to value ourselves more and to stop staying with jerks and making excuses for them.
Always a pessimistic idealist… the perfectionist… animal lover… dance enthusiast… and snob to people who don’t know me. Coz I’ve got the “proud peacock look”, according to a friend. Ah well… always takes one to know one, no? 
