Female, aged 30 and above, unmarried = Loser?
Heard this on mix.fm on the way to work this morning.
“Women aged 30 and above who are not married are losers. What do you think?”
What do I think??? Hell, NO!!
What’s wrong with being a woman aged 30 and above and not married? In fact, what’s wrong with not getting married at all? If some women choose NOT to get married, well, kudos to them! Some women are very happy being unmarried and for that they are labeled as losers?! What rubbish!
As one of the DJs said, who has the right to put an age cap on love anyway?
Unfortunately, that’s how society works and it is society that determines such ridiculous notions. You go to any functions, especially weddings and people will start the whole “When are you getting married” thing. Sheesh. I have a friend (you know who you are!) who intentially asks me “Bila kahwin” everytime he sees me. I give everyone my favorite answer : “I dunno”. 
Men have it better in this aspect. They can get married at any age, even 40 or above and people won’t think they are losers for waiting that long. They will say “Oh, he was busy focusing on building his career ma.”
Hmph.
I shall let my family and friends tell you about me. These comments may be rather old but I think the gist of them still hold 
