Buffets, Karma, Scrooge, Content, Zen
I am starting to detest buffets. I was never fond of buffets to start with because I think it’s totally not worth the value for someone like me to go for a buffet because I can never eat my money’s worth.
Also, you get to see plentiful display of the Malaysian kiasu-ness when it comes to all-you-can-eat food (e.g. people heaping their plates full of prawns or oysters or mussels or sashimi like there’s no tomorrow).
Plus, now that I’ve had more buffets in a month than I’ve ever had in the whole of last year (due to some clients’ penchant for holding workshops at hotels), I have realized that the food just looks nice but tastes mediocre at best.
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There is so much meanness and hatred in the world today.
This is one of the main reasons why I choose not to be mean to someone just because the person was mean to me.
Plus, I believe in karma, although sometimes I think karma takes too long to happen.
Anyway, why would you want to, say, be rude, to someone just because they were rude you? Doesn’t that make you as much a lowlife as them? I don’t mean you must be sugar-sweet to these people but can’t we be civil and then just remove ourselves from the situation?
I always believe “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”.
And if I so happen act in a way or say something that makes you uneasy, just tell me. I would appreciate the up-front feedback rather than you talking behind my back or applying the same type of behavior to me at another opportunity. Because sometimes I might not realize what/how I say something may be interpreted.
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I like a good deal, just like any other person.
But I will not go thru the inconvenience and hassle of just saving a few RM.
I am not such a scrooge.
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What gives me immediate contentedness (in no particular order) :
1. Being with animals
2. Hanging out with Sophie ![]()
3. Doing good for others
4. Lying in bed, reading my book, without any care for deadlines
5. Putting recyclables into the recycling bins
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I seriously need to learn to ‘zen’ myself, else I may be a potential hypertension candidate, the way things are going.
o_O